I always thought it is selfish to want things.
But it's actually not selfish at all.
It is natural to have desires.
You don't believe me?
Well, new researches show, that if you destroy dopamine neurons of rats, which are responsible for the development of desires, the rats can still walk, chew, and swallow, but will starve to death even when food is right next to them. They have lost the desire to go get the food (read the article to that here).
How relieving it is to hear that. I can be spiritual and have desires at the same time. Yeahhh!
Isn't that great?
So that means you dont have to feel guilty for what you want, even if it is the craziest shit. Instead be thankful that you are still able to dream, to strive, to want....and even more to get what you want.
O.k. let this soak for a while.
Alright, before you get too excited here and start robbing a bank, you have to ask yourself though, why you want what you want.
That's the hard part, because you really have to be honest with yourself. Here are some examples:
Do you wanna get married, so that you'll finally make your parents happy, so you'll finally get appreciated by them?
Do you wanna be successful, so that you'll finally win the competition with your brother and you can finally prove to yourself and everybody else that you are worth something?
You get it. Right?
These desires will not help you to get to know yourself better or to express who you truly are. Even if they get fullfilled, these things will not make you happy for long.
Only if your desires are aligned with your inner self, they will help you to feel more at home on this little, cute planet.
There is a wonderful women on this earth who actually helped me to come to this realization and you should definetly check that chick out!
It is Danielle Laporte and she has a wonderful blog. Just click on her name to come to her website!
So, what i want to share with you today are my desires for 2014. Here we go!
It is so simple, Sweetheart.
FIRST: If you allow yourself to want what you want, you start vibrating on a different frequency and you will take action.
SECOND: If people know what you want, they wanna help you to achieve it. That's just the nature of humans. Everybody wants to be in service.
So get clear on what you want and how you wanna feel!
And then spread the word!
I wish you a beautiful day!
And if you want to spread these words you should just go for it!